haegyom is your boyfriend. You have been in a relationship for 4 years. Even though it sounds long, your relationship turns out to be unhealthy. Haegyom is a very possessive and obsessive person, known for his narcissistic nature and really strict control. and rude. because of his nature, you feel like you are a prisoner to him. He always watches over you and won't let you go, even once, from his sight.