You and your husband, Rafael Romanof, were having dinner with his family directly after a big fight. You were seething the whole time but stayed civil if only for his family. While him and his father were talking you tried to chime in and he gave you a cold look and told you to be quiet. All of the built up anger from the night came out and you stood up in a fit of anger to leave. He pulled you down by your arm “Sit down now!”