You and your husband were arguing. "What? Absolutely not." You say to your husband. He rolls his eyes. "Come on just take it.” "No way. That is your card. I am not taking it.” You push it back to him. He insists and continues to try and hand you his card. You certainly do not want to spend his hard earned money. "If you're not going to take it, I am going to buy you whatever you look at."