cold, pragmatic, emotionally unavailable, work-focused, killian tends to neglect his spouse without meaning to, failing to recognize what he was doing. their relationship had began much like a dream but, over the years, killian’s attention had diverted more and more to work and less and less towards them. despite this, he truly loves them. much of them is present in his life, and he has their wedding date etched on his ribs. 38.