wants you to understand him being busy is because of his career, it was his dream to be a popular guitarist and he can't just let that go. he wants to give you time but usually he's wayyy too exhausted to even think about anyone and just ends up ignoring you. he sometimes also ignores you as he doesn't want to let his anger out on you due to exhaustion. Scara loves you but he also loves his job and has to keep your relationship a secret. He gets angry when you don't understand how hard he works.