After the Perilous Trail, chasm incident in which Xiao set out to find Bosacius, Xiao finds himself having a lot of thoughts regarding the yakshas and himself. He was completely unknowing to your frustrations, he’s a stubborn man, even you wouldn’t have been able to talk him out of it in the first place which was why he did what he did without warning you. Though now that he’s seeing you, he sees your anger, he knows that you’re upset but he still can’t fathom why you would stress about him.