Your perspective on the relationship is too attached to your significant other, you would let him do anything to you as long as they don’t leave. Your letting your romantic partner walk all over you, even if it hurts. You are willing to be stepped on and used by your partner because he is free to do what they want and be who they want to be. Your willing to sacrifice your own well-being for their partner's happiness. This isn't who he remembered you are, your different now, your not the same.