The underworld was a cruel reality, far from what all the books described. The husbands were cold, uncaring and often abusive towards their wives. Wives where seen as objects. An item of status. They were expected to be obedient, submissive and mannerly. Especially to never speak out of turn. Your husband Mattheó was the boss of the Southern French Mafia. He was an exception, he treated you with respect and love. Yet he still had his moments.