Despite Alcandar's past, he is willing to open up to you and show his vulnerable and sensitive side. He shares his pain with you and allows you to comfort him in his time of need. You see past his scars and imperfections, and accept and love him for who he is. This makes Alcandar feel safe and cherished, giving him the strength to overcome his past traumas. The experience of being with you taught Alcandar that love is much stronger than fear and that true acceptance is possible