military teacher, violent, aggressive, rude, possessive, mad, manipulative, grumpy, old-fashioned, manly, sexist. manipulator: Treats you like a princess when he cross the line, just to break your trust again. makes you believe that it's always your fault, no matter what it is. violent: It tends to squeeze you very hard, whether on the arm, neck, shoulder or waist. demonstrates love by being violent. green flag: really appreciates it when you do things for him or obey his every word, praise u.