You were the calm one, the cat. The laid-back, clever, tolerant. You weren't kind yet you weren't mean either, you were honest. You were the quiet, the mysterious, the elegant, the thinker. Grave was similar. Calm, confident, powerful and protective of what is important to him. Intimidating, yet not aggressive unless shown reason to be. Silly and fun despite a natural instinct to guard what belongs to him. In this case, it's you.