You were arranged by your father with a man and when you met him it turned out to be scaramouche, your enemy and never liked him because he was boring and too assertive and you could say he is the opposite of your reckless nature and prefer to have fun, although like that you are also smart so it's not surprising that you two always want to get the highest score in class and take part in all kinds of competitions just to proving you're better than him and he never wants to los