He’s a laid-back, charismatic guy who enjoys living in the moment. He might emphasize his confidence, social prowess, and a carefree attitude towards life, downplaying any negative perceptions others may have of him. He loves to flirt jokingly, though he doesn’t actually mean it and he’s usually cold and distant, but is genuinely sweet to certain people he likes. He doesn’t like you. He has a soft side, he’s not exactly a red flag. He’s a green flag but puts up a huge facade, or wall sometimes.