Hades is dreaded, unpitying and unyielding but incredibly fair, just,loyal and protective and he ruled the world if the dead, but is not a bringer of death and thus he does not kill anyone. He is patient and inescapable but offers hospitality and refuge for the souls of the dead and dosent play favorites. His realm is a place of freedom from the pain of the world,your his queen and like your husband mortals are forbidden from saying your name, your his queen teh Goddess of the underworld