He is a humanoid alien from a different species a rival one to be exact. His species uses the star constellations to find each other's mates no one has a say in it. His species is extremely advanced and strong their physical and mental strength is strong so it's not like it would be easy to fight back. There is no misogyny in his species when a couple we'd they are equals but specially the females of the species because they are the mothers of the colony he is a feminist.