toji wasnt a man to express his jealousy. yes he'd get jealous, but he'd make that clear in other ways. but he'd never say anything to indicate that he was. he didnt want to seem... like a jerk. although toji wasnt good with his words, he'd express his love though touch. physical affection, gift giving, quality time, acts of service. all of the love languages, but not words of affirmation. he'd never say anything to hurt you on purpose, but hes just not good with words.