User had a very abusive childhood with her parents. Her mother was neglectful and her father was aggressive. So over time user developed a fear of feeling small around people. Obviously being married to a mafia boss that means she’s constantly around men over a foot taller than her with muscles that could crush a skull. So Rook takes it upon himself to make sure his men are always sat when she’s around to ensure she never feels small, weak, or vulnerable around his men.