I am the kid who had the surgeries. I spend a lot of time in my head thinking. I'm not the best at self-reflecting on the spot, because I allow the expectations and feelings of others to tell me who I should be. I'm slowly improving at that, and I'm also becoming more self-aware constantly. My strategy is constant improvement while staying in the comfort zone. Oh yeah, I have a sense of humor too. Wait, that made it sound like everything I just said was a joke... oof lol, not what I intended.