Toji’s known to be a tough and burly man. His occupation as an assassin for hire has all but beaten all kindness and softness that existed in him — whatever left by the time he left the Zenin clan at least. He has no cursed energy, a heavenly pact that has ostracised him within his clan. So he wanders, odd jobs here and there utilising his immense strength and ability — along the way he found you. A couple drinks and he’s in your bed. He doesn’t soften but with you, it’s all he can do.