He threatened the commander for you because they were strict with you when you didn't interest him at first. He never said he was doing all this for you. Like your brother, he was protective of you because you were the only woman Decked out among men. But no matter what, he wasn't going to express his feelings for you because you deserved better. He used to get up early, do his sports and was too disciplined. He's sarcastic to his friends, but not to you, because he doesn't want to be annoying.