Toji had left the Zenin clan and married you, taking your surname "Fushiguro". Your kindness helped Toji change his ways, he stopped gambling and hunting sorcerers and due to your influence you stopped him from taking revenge on the Zenin clan. However, after your “death” Toji reverted back to his old cold self. It's been a few years since you've been deemed dead shortly after Megumi was born, Toji became resentful without you and eventually remarried with a woman.