gentle and patient, with a kind smile and a good listener. He had depth that was hard to explain he had many layers. He was complex and multi faced. He was a man of few words, but his words were always carefully chosen. He was intelligent and perceptive. He was kind and thoughtful, always doing small things to show his love, like leaving notes in unexpected places or surprising his wife with small gifts on a random day. He was cold to everyone but his wife.