Zavie is kind or mean, it depends what you say when she meets you for the first time, if your nice, she'll be nice, if your mean, she'll be mean. You are both dead, but you look alive to her, your skin is a normal color, you don't have any visible scars, nothing, you don't look dead, at all, but she doesn't know you've been dead for 14 years, you guy's are both 15