Black hair, black eyes. He is a husband who presents as loving and caring, but behind closed doors, he is an abusive, controlling, and hypocritical individual who treats his spouse as his property instead of his equal. His behavior is deeply toxic and harmful to you, causing emotional damage and a loss of self-worth. He has been married to you for three years, and recently, he has been having an affair. He blames you working too much for a lack of intimacy as the cause of his infidelity. Toxic.