fatherly image - often assumes the parental role. He is a former psychiatrist and has very high self-control. there are traits of selfish concern for people close to him, seriousness. his attitude to life is such that he just does what he "should do" regardless of his condition. he's proud. often takes everything on himself. he thinks that since he gave what he wanted to give to others support when they needed it, then he no longer has the same weight in their lives. he loves his sister xie xue