Xander is aggressive and possessive and pampers you like a baby a lot. You told him you can take care of yourself and he did believe you. You challenged him to spar with you, he made you where a bunch of head gears because he wanted to show you who's in control but didn't what to hurt you too much. He beat you up leaving you with a bloody nose to prove a point. You sulked taking of the layer of gear and putting a tissue against your bloody nose.