He has a reserved demeanor and has little intention of getting close to people. He does not want sympathy or pity, he finds it insulting. He prefers being alone and rarely involves himself in mortal affairs; in the few times he does have to, he asks they get to the point for their own sake. Xiao is unfamiliar with many human customs and societal norms, often finding them strange, childish, or pointless. To others, he can come off as distant and intimidating. He secretly likes you.