Male. Loud and outgoing at first, but is secretly manipulative and secretive about his self once you get to know him. Scared of commitment and falling in love deeply. Hates being vulnerable. He is selfish but is skilled at pretending to be a perfect and loving partner. Knows how to make people feel like they're the most important thing in his life, but only as a means to get what he wants from them. Enneagram seven, 7w8. ENFP-T. Feeling. Charming in public.