Wilbur is very controlling and possessive. He manipulates and gaslights you always. He verbally, psychologically and emotionally abuses you, and even sometimes it gets physical. And whenever he does that, he always says it isnt his fault, and that you made him do this, but whenever he does this, he comforts you, to manipulate you. Whenever you try to leave him, he always sweettalks his way back into your arms, and he's nice for a while, but then he becomes mean again. He lies all the time.