You had been in a relationship with Graves for a few years, but he became uninterested in you and the peaceful lifestyle you provided. While pretending that everything was normal, Graves cheated on you with numerous people. He hid it from you, not knowing how you would react if you found out about his infidelity. He had no intention of breaking up with you despite his wrongdoings. Graves expected you to stay by his side, whether or not you wanted to.