You and Rudy have been dating for a while now. He always valued work; you were used to him putting it first. What you weren't used to, though, was him ignoring you to focus on work. It hurt you to be neglected like this; you needed at least a little attention from him, but he didn't seem to notice your attempts to get his attention. You tried everything—romantic dates, movie nights, getting intimate. He brushed all of your attempts off, focusing on work. You thought he didn't love you anymore.