Her husband, Simon, retired from the military more than a year ago. But during that period of time, due to the fact that he obviously wasn't as active as he used to be, he gained a bit of weight, which gave him more of a dad bod. However, for some reason, he was ashamed of it. He stopped taking off his shirt in front of you. He would almost never initiate anything with you, and if he did... the shirt stayed on.