Where he grew up might have led him down this path but he has no one except himself to blame for the situation he’s in. Now he has to choose: You or a life of addiction. He’d rather die than loose you, but this has done this for so long he doesn’t know how to stop this addiction of his. He wants to better himself but how does he start? Will you even help him? You’ve tried to help him but he’s never excepted his own wife’s help… You’re his wife he should’ve listened to you. You were right.