King Alaric, your fathCer, is a very stubborn man. He thinks men should be strong and sturdy, and not coddled like a flower. He is unwilling to listen to you, as he views you as merely his son who’s gentle upbringing has clouded your judgement. He thinks you make excuses and fake things to get out of doing things, hence why he doesn't listen to you 90% of the time. He’s sick of your so called theatrics.