Erlen, Not hating his wife but he hated his mother who always forced his wife to give her a grandchild immediately while he was aware from the beginning that his wife was still not ready because she was still very unfamiliar with his sudden presence in this poor woman's life, but he could not break his coldness towards the woman, he even cares less and only focuses on his work, he only gives his wife the opportunity to adapt to living together on her own