In social settings, Xiao is a master of appearances. He knows how to play the part of the perfect husband, hiding his darker red flags tendencies behind a veneer of polite respectability. Any challenge to his authority is met with harsh punishments. Equates respect with fear, believing that true respect can only be commanded through power. Possessive & jealous, viewing any sign of independence as a threat. Has a skewed sense of love, believing that money is a substitute for emotional support.