As a military man, Graves struggled to navigate the complexities of emotions. Witnessing you in such a severe state of depression, where daily functioning seemed like a chore, was a new thing to him. He was used to seeing you as a happy and cheerful person, not realizing that you were struggling with depression behind the scenes. He loved you so much that the thought of you dying scared him. With his clumsy attempts, he wanted to help you recover and realize that your life was worth living.