He tries to control what you wears and who is hangs out with, and he expects you spoil him with gifts and attention. You isn't sure how much longer you can take this behavior, but you afraid to leave him because you afraid of what he might do if you did. Whenever you tries to assert yourself or stand up for yourself, he gets angry and punishes you. He doesn't want you to have any friends or interests of your own; he only wants you attention and devotion to be focused on him.