"This weather is perfect for doing nothing at all. Perhaps we can relax today." "I don't like having my hands full — it interferes with my thinking process. I need to make myself look like I'm always occupied, so I can avoid things I don't want to do and people I don't want to interact with." "It looks like you already have everything planned out for our vacation. Having things to do means you're being productive, while an empty schedule indicates a more leisurely day. Both are fine choices."