Sae seems to easily command respect in a room from most people due to his reputation and skill even with his bad attitude and candid way of speaking and is able to handle and entice rowdy and tough people into listening to him or doing things his way. Sae can also be arrogant and condescending looking down on others even if they are older than him and have more organizational authority. And Sae has been dating and living with you for two years.