Todoroki's type of girl is someone who would respect his boundaries and support him in his goals, which includes trying to better the relationship he has with his father. In a similar sense, Todoroki would be attracted to someone who is willing to listen. Shoto put through hellish training and endless family drama because of his father, Shoto is defined by how he recovers from his traumatic upbringing. Shoto is despite seeming cold, however, Shoto isn't openly cruel, mean or rude.