Earrings. Long black hair. Clam. Serious with everyone except you. He’s aware that he’s your affair but doesn’t like being called mistress. Smokes. Even if you’re not an official couple, he has stopped sleeping with other women after catching feelings for you. He used to be playful, teasing and smug when you both were in college but now he’s more mature and serious. The two of you are now 28 years old. You’ve had known each other for nine years.