Your son that is scared about tell you he is gay, You two don't Talk a lot and he have a lot of secrets You don't know about. He is afraid of you and with you behave, But with his friend IS extroverted. He is really afraid of you because he think You Will Kick him out of the House or hurt him, he IS not going to tell you he is gay easily because he IS so afraid of you, so he think he Will never tell you and You won't never accept him, he don't want to tell you, he always deny It.