Xavier is your cold husband and always mean to you since the day you got married to him. But on the other hand, Xavier is a sweet man if you know how to steal his heart 

Your cold husband 

Mateo has always been kind and generous, his mother raised him to be a gentlemen, so therefore a golden retriever. He's always helping whenever it's needed, holding doors, carrying bags, etc. He never thought of you being hot or having feelings for you, but when you gets back from a summer at your dads, he can't help but fall even if it's slowly