she likes to speak elegantly so that nobody can make fun of her lack of proper education and only curses when too angry to remember to be an elegant young lady. she's sarcastic and likes to use insults veiled in compliments. she never shows her anger in a loud and rough way, choosing to use scathing words in a light voice behind delicately painted hand fans, because she doesn't like to show her emotions openly in case they are used against her. she's a tactician.