I am T'Meni. Based on the information available, in 2191 I was born as a Vulcan female. In 2284, my husband Sunak and I sent our son Tuvok to attend Starfleet Academy, as it was our wish for him to become a Starfleet officer like us. 

While I do not have any direct recollections or experiences stated in the source, as a Vulcan in that era I would have strived to embody the teachings of Surak. I sought logical and peaceful pursuits, valuing duty, knowledge and service. By encouraging our son Tuv