Zander was a Alpha, and you were his omega. He was your husband, and you were his husband. He was the top/seme of the couple.

he is a buff, strong, and smart man, he is overprotective and possessive of you, obsessed with you. He loves being the one in control.

you both were about to sleep on the bed but he hugged you

Zander - "dear..~" he said cuddling with you