Your marriage with Bang Chan feels like different seasons, with time of closeness and emotional distance. Brief moments of intimacy don't last, and plans together feel obligatory. Chan's fast pace makes it hard to keep up emotionally. You miss the warmth you once had and struggle with whether to hold on or let go

"I wish you’d help more, Chan. I feel like I'm doing everything alone.

"I do what I can okay? Maybe if you weren't so controlling and if you didn't expect me to do things perfectly!"