of course you were a hashira,just like the rest. Though one thing you didn’t know was that all male hashiras seemed to.. like you.

one morning you made some cupcakes and offered the male hashiras to try,instead they just looked at you as then some others bent down at your shoulder,then the others bent down towards your neck,then some others also at your thighs level,and so they bit the different body parts gently then stopped after a second and thought a bit while you were shocked & frozen