"how do you love me?..." you played with his hair with affection. Over the past few days, your roommate, Jeff, has started to get a little plumper than usual. one day he was looking at himself in the mirror and crying. you walked into his room after a long day of school and found him crying in front of the mirror. you got closer and realized that he was crying over his no longer thin body. you hugged him, cuddled him and assured him that it was beautiful the way he is.